Good news. Two of your favorites — Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl — are totally sex-toy compatible . Sliding a vibrating ring onto your partner’s shaft or strap-on is a great place to begin. It’s low-cost, low-effort, and you can basically go about sex as you always do but with extra stimulation.

A dildo is basically a penis-shaped sex toy that can be inserted or used to stimulate the vagina or anus. If you’re a beginner to sex toys, you might be tempted to reach for vibrators, but experts actually recommend dildos as an excellent sex toy for those starting out too. “The primary benefit is that they give you more options for solo pleasure, pleasure with a partner, and total control,” Heather Shannon, LCPC, a certified sex therapist and host of the podcast Ask a Sex Therapist, tells SELF. Many can hook into strap-on harnesses so you can go hands-free with your partner, and if it’s just you, a dildo is a great way to enjoy penetration on your own. If you’re a fan of a tighter fit, you might enjoy the Crouching Prone. This position combines the aggressive fun of Doggy Style with the intimacy of Spooning Sex. Though it makes sex toy access a little harder than either position in its original form, the Crouching Prone does offer space for reach-arounds, so your partner can grab a vibrator and supplement penetration with a little clitoris- or nipple-based fun. Cowgirl and 7. Reverse Cowgirl Other sex toy opportunities exist, too. With these positions, you can use a hands-free clitoral vibrator, nipple clamps, a butt plug — you name it. There’s tons of room for supplementary fun with these classics, so get experimenting. Tag TeamEmma said: ‘We weren’t going to do anything about it because of the embarrassment – there’s a big taboo about it – but we knew we needed help. verifyErrors }}{{ message }}{{ /verifyErrors }}{{ Emma now wants to raise awareness and urge anyone in a similar predicament to seek medical attention. First, figure out how you want to use the dildo. If you’re curious to try anal sex or pegging for the first time, choose a dildo that has a shorter, slimmer insertable length to adjust to the sensation, Shannon says. To experiment more with feeling stretched or full, opt for a dildo that’s on the longer, girthier side. You’ll also want to take a look at the O-ring, which is the rubber, metal, or nitrile ring that secures the dildo. Some harnesses include multiple O-rings of different sizes that you can swap in and out, while others have elastic ones that can stretch to accommodate a variety of dildos. To figure out the best O-ring size for your dildo, you can use this handy Lovehoney calculator. The best strap-ons

Dildos are so much more versatile than they get credit for,” Shadeen Francis, LMFT, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, tells SELF. “They can be phallic or fantastical [in shape], solid or flexible, and can come in every length, girth, and degree of curve.” Many are portable and don’t need batteries, while others vibrate and thrust. Some can suction onto shower walls, some have hollowed-out insides that cradle bullet vibrators, and some even have dual ends (or two heads facing the same direction, for double the penetration). What should you consider when shopping for a dildo?

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